The most important thing in life is believing.
Even a little child knows that.
And I'm keenly realizing that now.
Everybody believes in something.
"I enjoy so-and-so."
"I don't like so-and-so."
Doesn't matter it's positive or negative, you believe so anyway.
And you may believe whatever you want to believe.
These days I try to think of others as myself.
Then I realize all the feelings such as joy, anger, sadness I feel for others are feelings I feel for myself.
You are the same way.
Everybody tends to be most strict for themselves.
"You are me."
Keep that in your mind.
It'll come into view what you couldn't see before.